It became apparent to me today that I need to be a little more strict about my children's behavior during Sacrament Meeting. (For those of you who read this blog who are not members, Sacrament Meeting is the main, hour-long meeting of our church where we listen to speakers and partake of the sacrament, or communion. Our children attend this meeting with us.)
I play the organ (surprise, surprise) and Matt is unavailable to sit with us. Previously, Matt would take and teach the girls about the Sacrament. But now, as someone else will have to watch our kids for a portion of the Sacrament Meeting, I need some more strict rules to keep consistency.
This is what I've got so far.
1. The girls have to stay on the pew. They cannot turn around and play with people behind them and they cannot play on the floor. Nathalie is sometimes allowed to stand up because she's still little, but Emily has to sit.
2. Emily is allowed to sit with her favorite person, but if she leaves her favorite person once during the meeting to come to me, she is not allowed to return. (This completely failed today as I played 4 hymns and Matt watched on while Emily went back and forth).
I think I'm going to ask special permission to leave the stand before the Sacrament instead of after, because I really want to be with the girls and teach them about the Sacrament. I also am recruiting some of my young women to sit with my family so I'm not handing them off and collecting them 3-4 different times during the meeting. But what other things should I begin to make the meeting run smoother?
I'm thinking that maybe they have to sit with our "family" (read: Emily and Nathalie have to sit together with said young woman) until after the Sacrament--no leaving early.
And what about toys? Now that Matt can't help during the meeting, I'm finding myself a little desperate to keep them occupied. Nathalie is a handful at best and I'm always fighting her to keep her quiet, sitting and happy.
Much advice is appreciated!